Make a plan for what?! Lmao… G Im single. My lack of “consistency” is contingent on IF I want what requires consistency.
I think people forget that Im single by choice(s)… When I answer questions I come from an honest disposition that isn’t based upon a concrete biased standpoint against my vulnerabilities… Because Im human, and my heart isn’t a generic part of my development(s). Again I don’t stress about plans because I dont need any in that context/department right now! Lmao… Dont make laugh B.
In my opinion, it’s not a matter of IF, but of WHEN. And so when IF and WHEN needs to be a priority, they will be.
But for now, Im doing a lot of intrinsic searching, etc. and my answers come from there.
I’m not answering peoples questions for advice, or help… I CHOOSE to express my vulnerabilities as a way of relating to people and more so myself.
Hopefully this can help you to understand that at all times Im more consciously aware of myself than any one answer sealed away in time on my Tumblr thread, y’know?
(Plans for what?!)
Thanks for the care though!
Actually yes! Lol… By the time I have a daughter I’d have learned enough to give her the best advice that would make her the BEST woman she could ever be concerning choosing a man… Including the power she’s receive from her mother as far as being a woman. I’d be the best example of a man for my children so that they could be the best judge of characters. Trust me.
I already made that decision…
Im a catch as is… Just have some things to iron out… Its human… So ultimately, yeah… My daughter deserves that and more, tbh.
I hate when people ask this type of question with such a generalized contextual disposition, though…
I’m never gonna be who I was, because Ive never been that person… I make a concentrated effort to develop a humbled acceptance to my weaknesses enough to change ‘em… Although some people dont!
BUT I aint them… And they aint me.
So yes… Id rather my daughter date a guy like me because Id be able to identify old traits and behaviors of mine (if they be present)… And I can help her to learn how not to settle… And hopefully teach the young man why his errs aren’t advantageous in his endeavors to get to KNOW my daughter(s).
My standards are high as is… So by then, my daughters will have to request résumés from guys who want to make just a phone call! LBVS😤